Johannesburg’s Citizen Relationship & Urban Management (CRUM) Region F, in collaboration with Social Development, Sports & Recreation, and various partners, held a Father and Sons dialogue event under the theme “Building Bonds That Last” on Wednesday, 24 July 2024. The primary objective of this gathering was to foster positive relationships between fathers and sons while exploring the concepts of manhood and fatherhood.
The event highlighted success stories and insights, aiming to shape exemplary future fathers by addressing the imbalance resulting from the predominant focus on the girl child, which inadvertently neglects the boy child.
Speakers from organisations including The Character Company, Heartlines, and the Disele May Foundation delivered impactful presentations, sharing personal stories and experiences. They emphasised the significance of fatherhood, mentorship, and the importance of fathers actively participating in their children’s lives.
During breakout sessions, fathers and sons engaged in open discussions with mentors, addressing issues that affected them and receiving guidance on how to navigate these challenges.
Fana Mahlangu, speaking for Heartlines, highlighted the movement’s dedication to encouraging active and positive involvement of men in their children’s lives. According to Mahlangu, children thrive when their fathers play an active role in their upbringing.
Raymond Louw of The Character Company discussed their efforts to nurture boys into responsible men with a strong sense of self and moral principles, contributing to safer communities for women and children. He stressed that a father’s physical presence is not enough; active engagement is essential.
Meshack Maluleke, Regional Manager of Social Development in Region F, echoed similar sentiments, emphasising the power fathers have to influence relationships and create a safe environment for vulnerability through open communication. He noted that social workers are available to offer counselling and support to both men and women, contributing to a stronger future.
Rendani Tshivhase from the Disele May Foundation shared his transformative journey from spending six years in prison to becoming a parolee, underscoring the importance of support for children who experience bullying and have no one to confide in. He urged parents to communicate with their children and create environments where they can express their emotions openly. Tshivhase also advised young boys to seek out positive role models and encouraged men to strive to be better role models themselves.
Irene Mafune, Regional Director of CRUM Region F, highlighted the importance of this initiative, noting that boys are often overlooked in favour of the girl child, resulting in many young and grown men struggling with social issues and household management. Mafune stressed the need to listen to and support young men, as they are calling out for attention. The region aims to conduct similar engagements quarterly and extend this movement to schools within the region.
Written by Dudu Lushaba
25/07/2024
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